Wednesday, July 8, 2009

The Long Trip (Part I)

When Mike got the job here in Utah, we discovered that in a 3 1/2 week period of time he would be gone training, being trained, on work trips that we could not follow him in during most of June. As I hadn't seen family in almost a year, we decided I would jump ship for the same period of time, journey back to California and visit with family and friends. Of course, being prudent and not telling people the house was vacant for a month was another a decision we made, so I have not blogged.

The kids really missed their dad. I didn't think it would affect them as much as it did, but they loved the conversations they got to have on the phone with him, cried at times that they missed him and were so happy to be home with him when we got back. It was a great discovery. I think they would miss me that much if I was gone that long...I am hoping more...but don't tell Mike. It just happens to be my full time job, so I hope it would have a bigger impact. At the same time, I would enjoy a nice cruise alone with my husband, but that is another subject.

Before we left we tied up a few loose ends. First there was some gardening that needed to be done. This is the front flower bed. It had flowers, but I felt it was a little anemic for my tastes. I have been looking forward to having my own gardening space for awhile. Next year I am hoping to put curbing by the entrance, starting at the closest corner of the cement below and then curving it around to the front corner of the house. Maybe even the back corner. It is a little sad back there. Then I will put in some nice bushes that will help the front window not look like a hanging space ship.
Here is the final product. I put in a Japanese Maple that will get about 10-11 feet tall. I moved all the pansies to the edge...saved some money there. Put in some more annuals and closer to the middle a bunch of perennials. It makes me happy to look out at my flowers.
This is the same place from the back. The backyard had a flower area also...you just couldn't tell. Getting all the grass out that had grown through the landscaping tarp took me most of a Saturday. Here is the back yard one. It is a little more anemic...I will add more perennials next year. I took out the "volunteer" tree they had let grow in this one also. It is still a vast improvement. The only problem I am having now is that because this is an aspen, there are bugs feasting on my flowers. I need to spray them to keep them healthy/alive.
Katie put flowers in her hair that had come out while I weeded hastily. It was very cute...
Before we left we also had to celebrate Christian's Birthday early so that Mike could be a part of it. Although that ended up being very confusing for him...it was what we did. We just did a really simple birthday cake with ice cream, opened presents and sang to him. He loved it. He got spoiled at Grandma's house when she wanted to make a cake for him there too. She didn't want him to feel unloved. It was a shared with one of his cousin, but it was all his as far as he was concerned. Katie is wanting three celebrations this year too. Life isn't fair though...
Christian lost a lot of teeth in the last month. On the "celebration day" he was sporting his Tow Mater look as the tooth loosened and stuck out. It is now gone.

Here is a little video from his party. Katie made up a little song for him.


(To be continued...)

6 comments:

meegz said...

glad you're back safe --- we'll have to get together. Flowers were worth the work!:)

Jeralee said...

You have been busy! Your yard is looking good. I noticed when I was in Idaho and in Utah last year, that curbing is quite popular in that neck of the woods. You don't see it here.

Ah man, I totally know what you are talking about, that is the spouse being gone for awhile. We went through that last Fall for 4 months, but at least we got to see Joe for 48 hours on the weekends.

I am having the same issues of bugs feasting on some of my plants. It is never ending, keeping the aphids and earwigs from munching on the dahlias.

Believe it or not, slugs are NOT the problem this summer for me!

Try neem oil. It stinks, but it is eco friendly and it seems to help with the insects.

Keri said...

So glad you're back! It was so nice
to see Mike during his visit to
Texas....I wish you could have been
here too! Sounds like you had a
busy and fun month. I love your
flower beds...They look great!

Debbie Jones said...

Your yard looks very nice. Glad you had a nice vacation. We just got back from Utah and Flagstaff and enjoyed a nice get-a-way. Don't you miss the Arizona heat? It was 109 yesterday!

aimee etc. said...

looking good friend, glad you were able to see family and get some CA sun into your system. Have a great rest of summer

meegz said...

I'm waiting for you to get that membership so we can go to the pool. We've lived at the pool for the last few weeks.:) We do need to get together -- it would be nice if I actually had your number in my phone -- maybe I do? :) I'll check.